From Scarcity to Screwdrivers: How I Became “The Practical Homeowner DIY”

The Practical Homeowner DIY. Cook‑Tech‑Handyman‑Dad. That’s the lens I bring to HomeFixandFood. This site is for people who: Live in a real house with real problems, not a showroom. Want tools and appliances that last, not end up in the trash. Like the idea of cooking at home without overcomplicating everything. Here you’ll find: Straightforward DIY tips and maintenance habits that have worked for my older home. Honest opinions on tools, automotive gear, and small home/kitchen appliances. Practical food, pantry, and storage ideas that help you save money and reduce waste.

5/8/20244 min read

Homespun Dinner Served

Let me share how this got started ...

I didn’t grow up with a garage full of tools.

I was born and raised in a third‑world country, and my teenage years were… let’s call them “character-building.” Scarcity wasn’t a temporary phase or a budgeting strategy—it was just the standard setting. If something broke, you didn’t replace it immediately. You figured it out. You improvised. You repaired it. And if you couldn’t repair it, you found a way to make it not look broken from a distance. (A valuable life skill, honestly.)

Back then, access to tools wasn’t a given. A “tool collection” would’ve been considered a luxury. So I learned early to be resourceful—how to stretch what you have, solve problems with whatever is available, and think twice before spending money.

That mindset followed me into adulthood.

In my mid‑twenties, I came to the United States. I started a family. And like most people trying to build a stable life, I worked hard and made wise decisions.

Then in 1999, I bought a house.

An older house.

And when I say “older house,” I mean the kind of house that doesn’t just sit there quietly and let you live your life. No. This house has opinions. This house is basically a part-time job with a roof.

The house that challenged me (and accidentally trained me)

Owning an older home is like adopting a senior dog from the shelter: you do it because you have a good heart, and then you spend the next several years saying things like:

  • “What is that sound?”

  • “Why is it doing that?”

  • “Was it always like that?”

  • “Okay… how urgent is ‘urgent’?”

  • “Please don’t be structural.”

At first, I didn’t have the skills I have now. I wasn’t raised with a parent teaching me “homeowner basics” in a workshop on weekends. I didn’t have a mentor standing next to me saying, “Here’s how you fix it safely.”

What I did have were real problems that needed solving—often when money was tight, often after work, and often with a family looking at me like, “So… what’s the plan?”

And that’s when the DIY journey started for real.

DIY wasn’t a hobby. It was the math.

I didn’t become a DIY homeowner because it was trendy. I became one because it made sense.

When you have a family and an older house, you learn quickly that:

  • Hiring help for everything gets expensive fast

  • Ignoring problems gets expensive faster

  • Doing minor fixes early saves money and stress later

  • And no one wants to call a contractor for something that turns out to be… a loose screw

So I started learning.

Slowly. Carefully. One project at a time.

I made mistakes. I fixed mistakes. I learned to do the things that every homeowner eventually needs to know—basic repairs, maintenance, small upgrades, and those little “how is this even a thing?” problems that older homes invent just to keep life interesting.

YouTube became my toolbox… and my teacher

I’m genuinely grateful for YouTube.

Over the years, YouTube has been my classroom, my reference manual, and occasionally my emotional support system. I’ve learned so much from fellow DIYers—people willing to show what works, what doesn’t, and what they’d do differently next time.

I’ve watched videos before starting a job. I’ve paused videos mid-project. I’ve watched the same 30 seconds ten times because my brain said, “Nope, didn’t catch that.”

And I’ve had those moments where you’re standing there holding a part, staring at the wall, thinking:

“This looked so easy on YouTube.”

But the truth is: it works. Not because it makes you an expert overnight, but because it helps you build skill and confidence one small win at a time.

My DIY style: practical, cost-efficient, and low drama

I’m not the kind of DIY person who buys every fancy gadget and then needs another gadget to organize the gadgets.

My approach is simple:

  • Fix the real problem, not just the symptom

  • Spend money where it counts: safety, durability, tools you’ll use repeatedly

  • Don’t buy things just because they’re “cool.”

  • Learn enough to do the job correctly—even if it takes longer the first time

  • And if something is beyond my skills or tools, I’ll admit it and call a pro (with respect… and mild pain in my wallet)

That’s why I call this brand what it is:

The Practical Homeowner DIY.
Cook‑Tech‑Handyman‑Dad.

It’s not a marketing gimmick—it’s basically my daily life.

Why “HomeFixandFood”?

Because “home fixing” is only half the story.

I cook a lot. I’ve learned practical, cost-efficient ways to manage food supplies, stretch ingredients, waste less, and keep a kitchen running without turning grocery shopping into a weekly panic attack.

The same mindset applies:

  • Be wise with what you buy

  • Use what you have

  • Choose tools and gadgets that actually earn their place

  • Avoid the stuff that looks helpful but ends up living in the “junk drawer witness protection program.”

What you’ll find here (and what you won’t)

On HomeFixandFood, I’ll be sharing:

  • DIY tips from maintaining an older house since 1999

  • Tools I’ve actually used, trusted, and learned from

  • Practical kitchen ideas that help save money and reduce waste

  • Small home appliances and kitchen gadgets that genuinely help (and the ones that don’t)

What you won’t find here:

  • Perfectly staged “DIY” that ignores real-world budgets

  • Advice that assumes you have every tool known to mankind

  • Recommendations I wouldn’t use in my own home

I’m not here to pretend I know everything. I’m here to share what I’ve learned the honest way—through necessity, repetition, and doing the work.

Thanks for being here

If you’ve ever:

  • watched a DIY video late at night,

  • convinced yourself you could “knock it out in an hour,”

  • and then spent the next three hours learning what “unexpected complications” means…

You’re in the right place.

In the next posts, I’ll be sharing:

  • The core tools I’d replace immediately if I lost everything

  • The maintenance habits that saved me the most money over the years

  • The kitchen gadgets I actually use (not the ones that just look impressive)

Thanks for stopping by—and welcome to the Practical Homeowner DIY life.